Are you wondering if you can Get Your Girlfriend Back?

You’ve probably been surfing the web trying to find a way or strategy on how to convince her to take you back. Chances are you just split up with her a couple of weeks ago or so. But for some strange reason you find yourself being unable to get her out of your mind.

Maybe you even understand her reasons for breaking up with you but truly regret whatever you did and crave nothing more heavily than a second chance. After all you see other guys who are much worse than you will likely ever be getting away with things that seem unforgivable. And you’re asking “Why them and not me?”

And you’ve called her countless times to talk things over. You talked to her parents, brothers and sisters and friends just to explain yourself and maybe find some way to trick her into liking you again. But without success. It seems like you’re the only one who knows that you belong together.

Is it possible you’re just out of your mind? You’ve become a pitiful nervous wrack and some sort of stalker. And that’s what you hate most about your situation. You’ve lost all your confidence and self-esteem and you feel embarrassment whenever you see her or people the two of you used to meet.

Well, how hopeless is your situation? How likely are you to win her back?

There actually is hope! Imagine you could find a way to immediately regain your strength and confidence. You could walk up to her and agree with the breakup. Yes, you heard right: You agree with it. You do it knowing you’re using a very powerful method that’s been proven hundreds of times.

You find a way to apologize in a manner that can’t be turned down. Actually a sneaky little trick you learned from a guide you found online.

Then you calm down. No more freaking out. No more weird phone calls or text messages. And you finally get rid of this useless urge to talk to her and to anyone who knows her.

And step by step you become the guy she once fell in love with and she now doesn’t have. There it is: your chance to reconnect. Imagine at this point you’re prepared and know exactly what to do next.

So if you’re wondering how you can get your ex girlfriend back I suggest you try using the methods detailed in Magic Of Making Up.

All the best…

Tuesday, October 12, 2010

Avoid, being friends with benefits with her ex-boyfriend-not his prostitute you

The only thing worst than breaking up is getting talked into being friends with benefits with your ex boyfriend. Do not let him turn you into his personal prostitute. If you think having sex is going to get him back, you better think again.


Why It Won’t Work

While it is true that women tend to bond through the act of making love, this isn’t always true with men. If you believe that the time you spend together after a breakup having sex is going to help you repair the break up, you are dead wrong. If anything you are helping him “move on”…how? While you are fulfilling his sexual needs/desires, you are helping to “tide him over” while he searches for another woman to replace you. Plus how will he ever start to miss you?

Being friends with benefits with your ex boyfriend will only make your current relationship worse…think about it. You will try to pull him close, and he will pull away. You will get the old “I love you, but I’m not in love with you” line as soon as you try to turn sex into a commitment. You will start to become more attached to him after every love making session, but he will only be thankful for the easy sex…that’s about it.

Do Not Let Yourself Become His Prostitute

This friends with benefit set up will start to look at lot like an arrangement between a prostitute, and a client, only instead of making any money, you will come away feeling empty after a while. You probably didn’t realize it when this all started happening, but you were really not interested in the FWB arrangement. You were subconsciously hoping this would get you back together with your ex, right?

So now you’re thinking how do I get out of this arrangement without making him mad at me? Unfortunately there isn’t really anyway to take away the goodies, and not make him angry. After all you agreed to this type of situation, right? Even if you didn’t really agree to a FWB arrangement, you didn’t stop it from happening, huh? Don’t worry there is a way to end being friends with benefits with your ex boyfriend, and get him back.

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