Are you wondering if you can Get Your Girlfriend Back?

You’ve probably been surfing the web trying to find a way or strategy on how to convince her to take you back. Chances are you just split up with her a couple of weeks ago or so. But for some strange reason you find yourself being unable to get her out of your mind.

Maybe you even understand her reasons for breaking up with you but truly regret whatever you did and crave nothing more heavily than a second chance. After all you see other guys who are much worse than you will likely ever be getting away with things that seem unforgivable. And you’re asking “Why them and not me?”

And you’ve called her countless times to talk things over. You talked to her parents, brothers and sisters and friends just to explain yourself and maybe find some way to trick her into liking you again. But without success. It seems like you’re the only one who knows that you belong together.

Is it possible you’re just out of your mind? You’ve become a pitiful nervous wrack and some sort of stalker. And that’s what you hate most about your situation. You’ve lost all your confidence and self-esteem and you feel embarrassment whenever you see her or people the two of you used to meet.

Well, how hopeless is your situation? How likely are you to win her back?

There actually is hope! Imagine you could find a way to immediately regain your strength and confidence. You could walk up to her and agree with the breakup. Yes, you heard right: You agree with it. You do it knowing you’re using a very powerful method that’s been proven hundreds of times.

You find a way to apologize in a manner that can’t be turned down. Actually a sneaky little trick you learned from a guide you found online.

Then you calm down. No more freaking out. No more weird phone calls or text messages. And you finally get rid of this useless urge to talk to her and to anyone who knows her.

And step by step you become the guy she once fell in love with and she now doesn’t have. There it is: your chance to reconnect. Imagine at this point you’re prepared and know exactly what to do next.

So if you’re wondering how you can get your ex girlfriend back I suggest you try using the methods detailed in Magic Of Making Up.

All the best…

Sunday, August 1, 2010

Reconnecting After A Breakup

Reconnecting after a breakup is tricky at best. If you've been calling, texting, and tracking then you haven't got a chance in the world of pulling things back together. Reconnecting after a breakup requires something different. It requires you to do almost the opposite of what you want to do.

In honor of Ringo Starr we call this method the Back off Boogaloo. What is "Back off Boogaloo," what does it mean?

It means stop it. Stop it now, stop trying to control the situation by getting in your Ex's face. That is a losing strategy almost 100% of the time.

Give it some space and time. You need to allow recent anger to fade and the memories of better times begin to come back. Memories are funny, we don't want to remember the hurt, rather we want to recall good times.

Space and time will give your ex a chance to begin to miss you, miss the good things about you, rather than be reminded of recent difficulties. So get out of their face and let your memory slip back into their hearts.

While you are giving this some time, say 3 or 4 weeks, work on yourself. Do anything toward self-improvement that you have ever wanted to do. When you finally do make contact with your ex again they will see a new part of you, you will be able to come back to them with renewed confidence that you will gain by following through on something.

Remember that you are not doing this self-improvement exercise for them, you are doing it for you. You need the realization that the relationship is not about your ex, but it is about you and your ex together. If you lose yourself to the relationship then you are not fully living. So this new thing that you do needs to be for you. It will divert your thinking during the time to positive things. You will avoid negative self talk and doubt if you keep your focus on this new thing.

That brings us to self-talk. While you are on hold, letting the wounds in the relationship heal, you need to talk to yourself in better ways than your probably have before. Tell yourself that you are getting better and better every day, that life is good and things are working out. Remind yourself of good things about you and about good things that are coming to you.

Reconnecting after a breakup holds certain challenges. You can meet the challenges by going slow and by proper self-talk. Discover the nest steps and secrets of relationships by clicking the link or just go directly to

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